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SThen make sure that it’s on record that she herself has explicitly named her parents as the ones who forced her.
Compensation can be sought, she’s anyway going outside, use this information and share it with a good lawyer. I’m not sure about the annulment part whether original comment is by lawyer, ask about that as well with a real one. With assurance of monetary settlement.
SNAL but isn’t she probably a working professional?It should be pretty straightforward to get mutual divorce as well if she herself returns the compensation as she’s broached the divorce, her parents forcing her and that not being conveyed to you could also act as a factor here to show no wrongdoing on your family end. Collect evidence from her or a statement from her to be recorded early on where she accepts that it was her parents who forced it, could work for safety later.
Compensation so can be a separate issue that can be settled out of court as well. Verify with lawyer nevertheless.
SThree people should never be fully trusted in India,1. A government worker
2. Friends
3. Religious and especially the set of so called *spiritual but not religious*The last one are most dangerous as they’ve learnt to hold on to a mask very well.
Quiz them until they break. Make them cry if needed with the toughest and most crude questions on life.
Voltaire says it really well – “Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities”.
If someone ties their critical thinking or any actions or morals and ethics to some ‘God’, I don’t know what bigger red flag there could be. Consult a psychiatrist because you need some sort of a mental coach to not just say yes to everything.
As for law, if she’s earning more than you, probe this angle with another lawyer just to get information, somehow if her job details get on record, you can avoid or lessen alimony or in best case scenario get something from her back as you’ve fought till now. NAL, explore the scenario.
SDo reverse emotional drama in front of his family; cry, beg and borrow if need be before your wife files a case against you for robbery or worse, divorce with compounding alimony.NAL but you’re in a fix.
SCalyxOS is worth a try. Especially if the goal is to minimize what info they are acquiring, if at all they are, through Calyx you can use most of the services that one previously did on an Android, will be a hassle at first. A list of supported devices are on their website.If you think they are able to hear or control your recordings, which is not feasible tbh, unless you’ve installed some APK or gave the phone to them to configure, just network details from the SIM would be going I presume, can still use Calyx to remove other doubts of suspected use.
SAre you a lawyer, asking for clarity. What would be the single proof here because the circumstances they created for themselves, staying together and getting drunk also in some cases can be twisted in anyway to suit the woman here. It’s a win-win any way and if OP is from rich or influential background they will prolong till a favourable settlement of money is reached.It’s not as if they have a CCTV recording of inside the room, probably even in that case Indian courts will say privacy breached and put new sections on the person.
SIf you guys stick together you will be bros for life. Actually stand up to him in even minutest troubles if he vouches for you this time, as this is do or die. NAL but strong alibi might help significantly when this goes to court or to convince police when they act as mediators. These incidents are dumbed-down as trivial by many but the loss of honour and time will eventually lead to anxiety and health issues in parents in the long term.Don’t take this lightly and approach a very trusty lawyer and keep them updated, don’t wait to explore options until later, **you’ll not have time to search someone** who has actually handled a possible media trial and its pressures and also negotiation with females and their crooked fathers who’ve gone rogue. So spend time yourself verifying references to find a competent lawyer.
And stop behaving like a dickwad, study hard if you have some sense. Should be bagging internships at this age, not running around courts, most issues on this sub are the same heat of moment gone wrong, so glad I quit law quickly. Indians will likely never learn.
SI have also seen cases as an intern where it was basically an extortion outlet for the bride’s father to justify all of his previous spendings that the incoming son-in-law should not only satisfy bride’s future costs but also take up his role implicitly with regards to finance – continuing the princess treatment which he started. And in worse cases, his business too eventually.To enable the enabler enabling the entitlement, to christen a new enabler because the guy gets to marry her, the woman is treated like a coveted prize that he should win over and surprisingly many women are okay with this behaviour of their fathers and even proud about it, at least from the cases I saw.
Rampant across all religions though, especially significant in Christians.
