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SNone of this is relevant to the topic of OP’s post. Y’all are just ranting about anything and everything under the sun, creating distractions.
OP is worried about his mom rescinding his property transfer. There are only 2 possibilities here. The mom is horrible, wants to exert influence. Or OP and/or his wife are dicks, and his mother has been treated poorly.
In the first case, OP is a bad human being for worrying more about the property rather than getting away from the toxicity of his family. You are an adult, move out of the house and live you own life. No one cares what people say, people will say something or the other all the time. Grow up.
In the second case, OP is a horrible human being for preying on his mother.
SWhat are you on about?
Even the people who become parents didnt get a say in how they were born. No one does. You make your life on your own, always. Everyone does. Its the concept of individual choice, freedom and being in charge of your own destiny.OP is not a kid on a street.
I repeat. Adults pay for themselves, take care of themselves, provide for themselves. They dont look to elderly parents for handouts, which OP is doing.
SWhat are you even ranting about?OP is NOT a kid. He is married, a full grown adult man. Nobody needs to care for him, or provide for him. Adults provide for themselves, and dont ask parents for handouts.
And you wanna talk about India vs rest of the world? Here in the US OP would be called a loser for living with his parents even when he is married. You turn 18 and you are on your own. And you dont get an inheritance if your parents dont feel like it, and you have no right to fight about it.
SI think we all know the ‘slavery’ is the string for the inheritance. Some people accept it, and parents are also kind. The transaction is very well known, but there is still some bonding. For some people there is no bond- its a pure transaction. Care for them in old age, get an inheritance.However, everyone has the option to accept or reject the transaction. If you feel the string is pure slavery and threats/abuse- walk away. Say good bye to the property and money, live your life freely, you got 0 right over it anyway.
Cant have your cake and eat it too. If OP wants the property, he should grovel and mend the relationship. If he feels this is toxic, he should walk away and live on his own, like adults do. What he shouldnt do is claw on to the property like gold diggers do.
SYou are not concerned over mending your relationship with your mother but rather over property?And even if she is a horrible person and at fault here, why do you care for her property? Its hers, she can give it to whoever she wants. Inheritances always come with some strings. Stop scheming to fight her, it will only get worse for you. You sound like a horrible human being.
