Buddy if the relationship isn’t satisfactory try being a bit more philanthropic where it does matter.
A friend of mine in the same boat spends all his resources on orphanages and old age homes. He says the good karma restores everything on his end.
You got what you deserved by being an ideal simp. Can’t blame the grifer for doing what they do.
You learnt a lesson and don’t go trying to avenge yourself. Cut your losses and run ๐โโ๏ธ