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      May 1, 2025 at 4:47 pm
      Ok, this is reassuring. Thanks!

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        May 1, 2025 at 4:03 pm
        Haha, would love to be the “trailblazer”, but also want to be safe as I belong to a normal middle class family and I don’t have the resources nor the appetite to deal with legal issues, if they may come.
        Appreciate your words of encouragement, but I am really looking for practical real life advice, so that I go in fully understanding the consequences.

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          May 1, 2025 at 3:41 pm
          Apparently, that’s not possible. Children will get my caste, which is even more weird that the girl’s family are letting go of their potential benefits. So yeah…

          in reply to: Intercaste marriage: is it a good idea? #4398
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            May 1, 2025 at 3:38 pm
            This.

            We have one experience (not martial) in our family, where we rented out a second home we own to a person/family. After staying a few months, he said he couldn’t pay rent because of financial issues. We were understanding of it and gave leway. But after 6-7 months, we told him to pay the rent or empty the house. Turns out he was ST, started quarelling and threatening atrocity, claiming that we wanted him out because of his caste. Actually jailed one of the neighbours who was helping us sort out the issue under atrocity. This whole experience left a bad taste for us on the whole atrocity law thing.
            That’s exactly why I want to understand more about such things in the matters of the marriage. Personal beliefs aside, I feel if there are practical/legal things stacked against me, I better be safe than sorry.

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