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UIt appears the son has been thoroughly brainwashed by his parents from his childhood resulting in no independent personality of his own. His parents have committed psychological abuse on him. They have made him an extension of their personality rather than a grown up independent man. The husband needs independent therapy (not couples counselling) to boost his own self esteem and see that his own family is now his wife and kids, parents are only to be supported. India is full of such hardworking bulls who were made such by their parents for their own financial and emotional benefits in old age.
The wife should record, literally video record any conversations she has with her inlaws, show them after a few months to her husband if it’s really happening.
If above doesn’t change and i have a feeling it wont based on ur description, I think divorce may be only option, but after some time. The guy is only going to suffer most in this, but sadly he or his mom doesnt realise.
UThe wife and husband need to live independently from in-laws, at least for a few years. Both need to sit down and figure out home financial rules, how they split and manage and earn. This seems to have not been done right away after marriage.Wouldn’t recommend divorce as yet as there is no hard abuse or cheating. Both are educated as well and can understand each others points. Inlaws might be the concern here
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