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UBorderline personality disorder is a really challenging mental health condition. It can cause instability and severe distress not just in the individual, but also their friends and family. Speaking from personal experience, I can understand how challenging it can be to help, and how much courage you must have to even try.
Truth be told, the world is a tough place, and sometimes we try to control it. This works on occasion, but with mental health disorders, external advisors can make little difference in someone’s life. They must have that small part of them that isn’t controlled by the disorder in order to seek help, and the best you can do is try to help them find that small part. If for whatever reason they can’t – you must accept the helplessness.
I would recommend you find a therapist for yourself – understand they way things have made you feel and discuss your legal concerns with them. Wishing you happiness
UYou should do your own due diligence before lending money. Did you know why your friend needed the funds? If it was something like urgent school fee payment at a time when they did not have liquidity and they are trustworthy people, safe to say you will get your money back.It seems like, from the limited info you have given, that your friend may be a gambler. Either he is waiting for other people to pay him, or he is in losses.
