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UBro whatever happens please don’t keep it to yourself. This is the biggest issue with men. We suffer in silence. Women make noise and get societal support.
You owe it to yourself and to all other men like you. Please make youtube videos, write on twitter, write on LinkedIn.
You will see you are not suffering alone.
As for your wife, their plan was pre-decided . Nothing you could have done differently that would have saved this marriage. They came in with the mentality of “let’s see what happens, if we don’t like it there is a very nice exit option waiting.” she has decided to cash out, that’s all.
Don’t go down quietly. Make noise. They will threaten you with all kinds of things and will do their best to play the victim.
Silver lining is Courts are start8ng to recognize this bullshit. Get a good lawyer. They will most likely file a false case somewhere far from your place so you have to travel. In response, you should be filing your case against them far from their house, closer to yours making them travel the same way.
You have to fight it. And be as public about it as possible. I have seen the same happen to multiple people in my network. If your case goes in front of a judge that’s even half sensible, you will get a favourable ruling. A good lawyer will make or break your case. There are NGOs as well that help men in similar situations. Reach out to them.
I will say it again, DO NOT SUFFER IN SILENCE. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. There is a support network out there. Reach out to people.
