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May 6, 2026 at 6:50 am

Simple don’t give him the money, but mine will be different because he living in other house with his wife,if will emotional blackmail you, try all emotional stuff,, get angry, just stop talking ,and most important thing the elder generation does, don’t tell him everything, especially about finances, when he realize you are poor,then he will not ask you, hide you mothers gold, land deed, avoid signing papers,ect. Play emotional if he play,(usually it don’t have any impact on him) ours was my grandfather was really smart and cut and the financial support to my uncle, but pay for some health activity.

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May 6, 2026 at 6:33 am

Trust me, it’s not going to stop, one of my close relative is similar, we lost lots of gold, still problems are not over, it’s going to be headache and you family health is going to deteriorate, you won’t get sleep at night, and even if the debt become zero he is going to borrow more, it’s an addiction.

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May 6, 2026 at 12:39 am

Is it possibility of him running away to becoming hippy or something, try being him to spirituality usually those people run away faster.or ask him if he wants to go back to hyderabad, give him option.

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