As much as I would like to make a diplomatic statement, the simplest explanation I have is most Indian households have the mindset of dowry giving and taking. They would rather blow up their lifetime savings on a 2 day event for showoff and perception that their daughters future is secure if they pay a hefty dowry but more often than not it backfires and the daughter suffers along with the family.
We are Hindus by religion. Yes I will agree facts could have been better presented. I apologize for this and thank you for keeping patience and taking time out for this. However one thing we fear that her jewellery could be sold off since they are jewellers by trade and it won’t take them much time. Was just wishing we could secure control over it before they could do anything out of spite or greed.