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UNo, we don’t have kids.
Yes i started dropping hints or tried saying things since around 1 -1.5 yrs back. But she is clueless.
She doesn’t feel the disconnect.
We recently had a small trip, and on the 2nd last night i asked her how’s the trip going, how is she feeling abt connection with me.. she was happy and said that she feels it.. whereas i had been lost in myself, distant throughout. When I stated that, she was sort of clueless, and fumbled that she felt me a little distant. There lies the biggest issue, when I am feeling super distant, she barely understands.Since then we have been trying to talk, taking couple’s therapy. She opened up about some old resentments of her..
But all in all, I am not seeing an end to the tunnel. Once love is lost, the connection which was even barely there, lost.. there is little chance of igniting the flames again
UFor starter our marital life had never been exciting, the soft touch, soft little moments of intimacy, bit naughtiness or being coy.. from my perception, I had tried initially, but never felt it coming from the opposite.May be i never felt love the way i have wanted, from her. for me love is something different., an unspoken unexplained pull towards each other .., maarpit rahega.. , possessiveness, illogical jealousy, overflowing intimacy… being kiddish, thoda pagalpan…
She have taken some responsibility over time, learnt taking them.. have tried in family things.. but where am I? My emotions ? Never has tried to touch the inner me..
