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May 6, 2026 at 6:53 am

That he ran away from home at 25 implies some unresolved childhood/adolescent trauma. Was he controlled too much in his childhood? Too much pressure about studies or daily routine? Nitpicking into his habits?

He must have been working until he absconded. Were there office problems? Past relationships that went south horribly? How was communication in your household before he ran away? Was he open about communicating his failures before you guys?

You need to discuss all these aspects with your parents (or some psychotherapist), if not already done so.

Taking legal help is just incident management. Yes, he can be ‘taught a lesson’, as the term goes, but that doesn’t address the root causes of his behavior.
Without addressing them, and if he leaves (or is made to leave), chances are that you folks will keep hearing of more and more trouble on his account now and then.

Due to whatever has happened in his life in the last dozen years, it seems he has grown to prefer isolation & solitude. Did you ever ask him if he was at peace while he was in Hyderabad?

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