The important thing is that, getting a pak visa for indian citizens is next to impossible under ordinary circumstances.People who manage to get are mostly those who can establish credible reasons for visiting relatives in Pakistan or for professionals whose requirement is non negotiable which has to be validated and established by the company sending them there. This is for ordinary passport holders.
Diplomatic and UN passports and special passports may have different criteria because their special status.
Even if you manage somehow to land in Pakistan by any means, you will be restricted to move within predefined cities and will have appear at local police station and confirm your presence in that town or city on a daily basis.
So try to meet in a neutral venue country convenient for both parties