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UDear ,
From my perspective, relationship takes effort from both side.good that you are taking therapy. Keep continuing it .
Try to build good relationships with her parents, her close friends.
Don’t think about kids now… relationship gets even more complicated after kids.Divorce is very big thing..what do you want to do with your life after that ..have you thought about it.
What is guarantee that second marriage will be successful.
Obviously I am not aware about every details of your relationship. based on what you have said I would suggest don’t think about divorce rather you both should together work in fixing things.
It is not impossible to ignite spark in relationships.
Work on resentments. It’s biggest reason why ppl don’t heal or are not able to move on.How are her relationships with your parents/ family.
Does she consider sharing her problems with you ?
Are you able to resolve it.In my case , my husband used to say same thing like you.
He ended up cheating me multiple times , we have toddler.I have lots of resentments stored in me..very difficult for me to move on now.
We have not thought about therapy now..because of financial crisis.
He lost his job , got addiction of casino , cheated me , visits Thai spa and so much more.His family is very selfish..everyone is just behind his money.
Even after all this he expects me to build good relationships with his family.
I have no contact with his family now.I stay at my parents place.
Don’t know about future how to fix so much issues .That is why I want to suggest you…if you have less issues than me…please work on finding solutions rather than divorce.
Divorce should be very last on your list .
UDid you discuss same thing with her ?
What was her response.
May be she is also feeling emotional disconnected from you .Is she holding resentments?
Do you have kids ?
