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  • in reply to: Divorce during IVF process #66348
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      January 28, 2025 at 7:10 pm
      Yes it’s done. I’m good now. Thanks for responding.

      in reply to: Divorce during IVF process #66365
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        January 26, 2025 at 7:33 am
        I think she’s also not happy with me and I don’t want to spoil her life anymore. I don’t think I can be the man she wants me to. Our frequencies don’t match and don’t think will ever match. Thanks for your response.

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          January 26, 2025 at 7:24 am
          Thank you. I’m really not dumping her because of the baby thing . I’m at the lowest point in my life. Never felt so helpless and no it’s not the baby thing. I’ve done probably everything for her whatever she asked. But all I get in return is constant nagging, arguments. It’s like i enabled her with listening to all her tantrums etc . That monster kept getting bigger , I’m losing my sanity. I’ve lost all my self esteem and just don’t feel confident about myself anymore. Things have gotten so bad I don’t have feelings and don’t feel like doing anything for her.
          I’ve reached a dead end of my life

          in reply to: Divorce during IVF process #66364
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            January 26, 2025 at 7:13 am
            I’m not sure if it’s clear. Im very clear it’s a NO!!!
            And I’m gonna do whatever it takes to withdraw consent with the hospital. The purpose of this post is to understand legally would she be able to override my withdrawal of consent legally and go ahead with embryo transfer? My gut says no if I withdraw my consent. Makes sense?

            in reply to: Divorce during IVF process #66347
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              January 26, 2025 at 7:09 am
              Look I can never reason with her and her closed ones. They aren’t rational people. Im just exploring my options and would take action rather can get into a painful argument which leads to nowhere.

              in reply to: Divorce during IVF process #66352
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                January 26, 2025 at 7:06 am
                Very true. Learning the hard way.

                in reply to: Divorce during IVF process #66363
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                  January 26, 2025 at 7:05 am
                  I am not dumping her.
                  It’s all about the boundaries that we draw are never respected by her. I always make it a point to respect it. Anyway it’s a long story I just can’t take it more. Both of us are not happy. In fact she initiated the discussion on divorcing.

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                    January 26, 2025 at 7:01 am
                    Of course I don’t want to. She’s insisting

                    in reply to: Divorce during IVF process #66335
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                      January 26, 2025 at 6:42 am
                      Thanks! Yes signatures were taken on a consent form. That’s what I was thinking of withdrawing it.

                      in reply to: Divorce during IVF process #66336
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                        January 26, 2025 at 6:37 am
                        Divorcing thing happened a month ago whereas IVF process has started atleast 3 months ago. Hadn’t planned for divorce, things just aren’t working out between us. I thought a baby might but it’s beyond repair now.

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