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UYes, i did promise her to move out. Yes, i did look out for options. As a matter of fact, both her elder sister and myself looked for houses within 10km radius of her work place. But, we did not find one for atleast a month or two. Post which things got escalated too fast.
Also, she asked the same thing. What did i do for her. This is my point of view. Noone will keep tabs of things which they do out of love and affection. I will clean our toilet. I will clean our room cause she has dust allergy. I will wash our dishes.. Yes, she did do laundry, she did cook. Only when my parents were not at home. Before engagement, she said she didn’t own an umbrella. Just to see her face, i would drive all the way from my place to give her the umbrella. I might sound orthodox, but i think this is an effort.
Why would i even think of making her life miserable? I was a single child, i know what loneliness is. I know every girl misses their home and comfort post marriage and it is a huge sacrifice. But she should also have given me time to figure her out. Instead, she said she cant teach me her likes and dislikes everytime we had a misunderstanding. Isnt relationship a two way street? Shouldn’t both the people involved put efforts in understanding this relationship?
UMe and my family were desperate. A little context, i lost 3 toes in my left leg during a bike accident. My matches would discard my profile stating this as a reason. This girl was the only one who accepted this after showing her my leg. This was one of the major reason.UThats the first question i asked to her mother. Whether she was married by force without her intention to be in one. But the girl would say she has no problem. Thats the thing i am worried about legally.UI have no idea. She said she had no relationships. But then, she would never invite her friends to any plans. She says they are introverts.UThank you. To add, her father is a retired criminal lawyer and her parents are trying to patch us up after all this. I want to exit. Thats why curious to know what might happen if i initiate it first. Because, they seem to wait it out.
