I was seeing someone who was diagnosed with Bipolar and had severe ADHD. We were in a long-distance relationship. We met once for a week and then went back to our home cities. He also started having “attachment anxiety attacks” if that’s the correct term.
He used to always cry that he’ll take his life (due to xyz reasons – his financial condition, family, etc).
I got him into therapy, paid for his sessions, he didn’t attend them.
Eventually, I told him, his mental health is affecting my work, career and emotional health. I’ve been trying my best to help him, but he doesn’t want to accept the help and cry wolf. I put my foot down and broke up with him.