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March 15, 2025 at 5:17 am

Ab kisi random reddit post ki comment me pura scenario thode hi batata firunga. Anyway, it was between a few boys and the teacher.

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March 14, 2025 at 3:00 pm

Come on man, join the dots.

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March 14, 2025 at 12:25 pm

Mere ek college ke teacher ne kaha tha, “Kaan ki khujli hamesha ungli kar ke hi jaati hai. Lekin agar baar-baar ki jaaye, toh ek din ungli dukhne lagegi, par maja hamesha kaan ko hi aayega.”

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February 16, 2025 at 4:56 pm

NAL.

In my community and generally in the southern part of the country, it has been a long-standing tradition for the bride’s family to bear most of the wedding expenses, while some families split costs differently—like the groom’s side covering the engagement and the bride’s side handling the wedding. Similarly, gifting gold ornaments beyond the engagement ring is common on both sides.

The issue isn’t the tradition itself but the pressure to follow it. The best way forward is for both families to have an open discussion about their expectations, budget, and willingness to contribute. If it’s done out of goodwill, it remains a tradition. If it’s forced, it crosses into dowry territory.

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