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  • in reply to: Gave 50L unsecured loan to a friend #48904
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      February 23, 2025 at 3:04 am
      This is the only solution. Rest everything is secondary

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        January 29, 2025 at 5:10 pm
        Then you should be getting gratuity. I don’t see a way for you not getting it. I hope someone from HR or finance background can shed more light here

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          January 29, 2025 at 4:38 pm
          You’ll gratuity after 4.7 years. I had received it. Do not worry much about it. Were you a non FTE in your early years?

          Focus on finding the next job!

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            January 14, 2025 at 10:46 am
            All the best. Do try to be kind to your father. Everyone has a phase in life and as a father, if I ever be in such situation, may my kids support me. For good things though.. not for star maker kind of things

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              January 14, 2025 at 7:08 am
              NAL.

              Unless the house and property is inherited by your father, he has all the rights to sell it if he has acquired them with own money. There are tons of examples of people loosing their wealth to gambling, business or to shady deals. Even Anil Ambani lost like 50 billion and his kids could not do anything.

              That said, you can do few things:

              1. Talk to your father, try to understand the reason. I think since you are only kid and your father is lonely, these things might be happening. See if you can move with your parents or your parents can move with you. Things can change.

              2. If not option 1, talk to your dad and tell him to limit the spend. Tell him that you can take purchase the house from him and pay him monthly. See if you can pay fix amount to your parents every month like 10k-20k especially to your mother. Its also a token amount you can pay because parents have born and brought you up over the years. This way you can limit the damage.

              3. If none of this is working, you can ask your mother to move with you so that you can take care of his wellbeing. Write-off the losses. Life is short.

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