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You’re in an incredibly tough spot, and I get why you’re looking at this from both an emotional and legal standpoint. First, for her safety…if she’s actively suicidal, emergency intervention is crucial. You might want to contact a crisis helpline or a mental health professional who can guide you on immediate steps. In some places, you can even request a wellness check if you’re concerned about her harming herself.
From a legal standpoint, things get tricky. You’re not responsible for her actions, but if she’s making threats of self-harm and involving you in them, it’s important to document everything…texts, calls, any incidents where she’s expressed suicidal intent. This isn’t just for legal protection but also to show a consistent pattern if professional intervention is needed.
If her behavior is becoming manipulative and affecting your mental health, you have to consider setting boundaries. Supporting someone doesn’t mean sacrificing your well-being. If you ever need to step away from the relationship for your own safety, having documentation can also help in case of false accusations.
A lawyer or mental health professional could guide you through any legal safeguards that exist in your region—whether it’s involuntary psychiatric evaluation laws or protective measures for yourself. But the main thing is, you can’t be her sole lifeline. She needs professional help, and you need to protect your own mental health too.
