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February 18, 2025 at 1:24 am

I mean, all four of you moving to a city and starting afresh.

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February 17, 2025 at 4:53 pm

Reputed and effective therapists will be very expensive.

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February 17, 2025 at 2:46 pm

Unfortunately, if you delay therapy for the entire family, things will get worse and worse. Taking any step otherwise, will be a risk for everyone. Your parents might be getting sympathy from you, but they’re not innocent. Environment, awareness, etc doesn’t matter. Consequences are consequences. Once the karma is done, it’s fruits aren’t avoidable. Consider putting together finances and assets and moving to a big city where you can start afresh and heal.

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February 17, 2025 at 11:25 am

Sorry to say, that’s difficult. Most of these type of doctors are located in Metro cities.

What’s your household income around and how can you organize resources for his rehab?

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February 17, 2025 at 10:30 am

You need a family counselor. Your father has changed but even if you and God forgive him, your neural systems won’t. The experience of being beaten when young, will subconsciously remain and it’s very hard to repair. You need a family counselor immediately.

If his lack of empathy is because of something else, like actual brain conditions like psychopathy, that’s something else but otherwise, it could be a result of abuse. Anyway, I’m not the doctor, and cannot diagnose. But this isn’t something you cannot handle on your own without professional help.

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February 13, 2025 at 2:36 am

Thing is: Entire Hindutva gang wants that. They wanted to make India the next Israel. But in 2021, they realized that they are still controlled by trad dehatism, without which they might lose out. That was the reality.

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January 17, 2025 at 4:32 am

Best thing for loop 1: Ask her to wait until she’s 18, in a few months. This is, IF you have mutual feelings, and keep documenting things and maintain minimal contact till then.

If you don’t have mutual feelings, then best to talk to her gently, saying you’re not interested and also reach her friends/mutual friends and get them to talk to her.

Better to keep it limited to this, at this loop, if there’s no major escalation. Involving parents and blocking has its own evil risks and don’t consider those unless there is a major escalation.

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