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UOnly thing for the parents to do is go take the law in their own hands and take a proper revenge “I Spit son Your Grave” style. In this nation, police and judiciary are among the most corrupt branches of government. No hope if your opponents have money and connections.UOkay. That’s doesn’t change the fact they spent 55L
Liquidating family assets. Not very smart unless they were expecting 2-3cr at a minimum.UThe real changes started happening only in the late 2000s and early 2010s. State employees have been paid lesser vs central employees. Unless you are a gazetted officer grade, you were taking less than 1.5 lpm till very recently.UMust say that wasn’t very smart. How much was the return they were expecting? Unless it was 3-4cr, it made no sense to spend 55L by liquidating family assets. ItUBig for a clean government servant. Even today the salaries of absolutely the highest officers are 3-4 lpm. And OPs mom was a state officer, where it maxes out at 2-2.5lpm. Must have been around 50k-79k most of her career. People won’t spend all their life’s savings in bribes.UWhere did she get the 55 lakh from? Was she taking bribes herself? That amount of money is something people don’t just have lying around.UOf course one should be loyal and his cheating should not be tolerated. But you are both 55 plus. You prominently mention a dead bedroom. This is the age of “vanprastha” as per our traditions. This is the time to devote to create base for the eventual end of life in another 15-20 years. This is not the age to find other sexual partners by separating from him. Think of your kids. If they are married and settled – imagine the impact on their spouses and their in-laws. Take everything into consideration.UTypically, government pays the land owner while they are setting up the tower. You also have to be cognizant of the impact the radiation and electric field will have on the usability of the land.UNAL but I don’t think you can have two legal wives while being a Hindu. So maybe, no legal rights to property for the kids of second wife.UI personally don’t trust open box delivery concept if I am spending more than 10k-20k. I have bought my phone and watch as well as some appliances that I bought last year from physical stores. Some other gadgets I bought from original company website. Even if buying from Amazon, e.g., use a trusted seller like Cloudtail etc.
