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January 12, 2025 at 4:20 pm

A man can’t ask a woman to initiate khula. That’s not how khula works.

Are the compromising situations at work them having sex? Inappropriate touching? Talking together? Witnesses to them giggling at work aren’t going to prove anything in court.

He needs to initiate divorce himself and has to let go of the idea that he will get back mahar. She’s not going to give that back and it’s going to cost more in court fees to try to get it back than it’s probably worth.

In many cases, mahar is seen as alternative to alimony, especially in cases where children are not involved. This would not be a hard to case to argue but I doubt it would even come to that.

Sounds like the main holdup is your friend not wanting to let go of getting back mahar. How much did he pay that he cares this much?

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January 12, 2025 at 3:59 pm

Did he pay haq mahr already? At the time of the nikkah?

What proof does he have of her cheating?

Khula is when a woman willingly gives up the marriage. How can he force her to do something she would have to do willingly?

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