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January 17, 2025 at 12:40 am

It’s completely natural to have a crush at her age. But people are acting like it she is a problem, as if she’s some kind of villain trying to ruin your life. That’s just not true. She’s a teenager figuring out all the things she hears about quite often—‘love,’ ‘boyfriend,’ and so on.
Considering her parents aren’t kind to her, she’s probably searching for a sense of home, solace, and comfort. Whatever you do, do not humiliate her. Instead, try to handle this situation as gracefully as you can. Since you see yourself as a sensible person, remember that how you treat her now will likely stay with her. Making her feel like she’s unlovable could have lasting effects.
Teenagers are often desperate to solve all of their problems at once. It’s a painful age man. You can gently let her know that, unfortunately, you don’t feel the same way. If you choose to block her, make sure to explain why—frame it as an act of concern. Let her know you’re doing it to help her dissociate, which will allow her feelings to fade over time.
For heaven’s sake, she’s not a criminal—just a silly teenager who thinks she’s in love and doesn’t know when to stop lol.

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