I have a known female colleague who is fighting divorce. The thing is her men is ignoring every demand and she is fighting the battle all along alone. This will be a hard decision for you. Since t area mother this might make it more difficult or easy.
Lawyers are bot trustworthy. They are leaches. They donβt want a customer loss. So they might file a wrongful case this type this code etc etc. And make you stuck.
See all the options before diving into. This can be a deep but if you feel the fight would be worth do it. But be prepared mentally financially emotionally and all.