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March 4, 2025 at 12:56 pm

There’s a blogger- Bombay street style- she too is a Pakistani married to an Indian, I remember her posting about what can be done

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February 1, 2025 at 5:58 am

I’ll never understand people wanting to stay married to people who don’t want them

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January 21, 2025 at 8:31 pm

The law is that way because that’s been happening since ages to women? The idea was to protect them from men who were and still are the larger group of perpetrators, somehow this aspect is always lost by people talking about the injustices men face, it’s almost like you’re blaming 99% of women for the actions of 1 %, very conveniently ignoring the past actions of 99 % men and present actions of a disturbingly large majority of men.

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January 21, 2025 at 6:04 am

NAL and not legal advice. I understand how all of this has made you feel like you’re responsible to take action on this, but no you’re not, in fact by doing that you’re looking backward instead of forward, your place is as their child, not as an equal, you decide for you only, not for them, they’re adults and made their choice, whether active or passive, you move forward, and let this stay behind. There’ll be times of guilt but that too isn’t your burden to carry.

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January 20, 2025 at 6:44 am

I think she means leave along with the children?

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January 20, 2025 at 6:42 am

My ex husband didn’t give much back, but I left anyway, thought of it as payment for my mental peace. If you can afford it, I’d suggest the same, take what you can get back and leave- time can sometimes be as valuable as money and staying in a limbo can have grave effects on your health.

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