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UOP if you did actually forge a professor’s signature (and as a final year MBA student, you are atleast 21 years old, not a high school kid)- maybe start with owning up your mistake and accepting the consequences. If anything, you guys are getting let off pretty lightly – none of the consequences are that serious or would have any lasting effect. No one outside your batch would even know and this would not have any long term impact on your career.
That said , here’s my suggestion – keep grovelling in-front of the faculty and begging for their forgiveness. Shed a few tears if required. Generally this is just about an ego trip for a bunch of middle aged men to feel powerful. Also, formally disbarring people from placements is an oft used underhand method by fledgling B-Schools to pump up their placement stats – you are just being made a scapegoat (who did something stupid tbh) to cover their own asses . In all probability they’ll let you sneak into the process – but only towards the fag end.
Also, keep applying to the open positions on LinkedIn and various job portals – you’ll be surprised by the number of good roles open to fresh B-School grads (chances are , you might end up with a better role than a good proportion of your IIM – Visakhapatnam batchmates).
USounds like a scam in the making. Next time that cop shows up – ask for an ID. I have a feeling your next conversation with him would be over a phone call , he won’t show up.Ulol – what. I don’t know what boys do or talk when they’re among themselves?Maybe I don’t know what closet sexual predators do – but as a person who has walked around with a dong between his legs for 3 and a half decades, I pretty much KNOW WHAT MEN AND BOYS talk about. (Atleast the normal ones).
Also, do you ever wonder if those kids ‘being from well off families’ was the reason for the lack of fear of consequences? What kind of mafia sickos did you go to school with.
Multiple studies have proven that deviant / predatory sexual behaviour often starts with people normalising and internalising the same during their formative years – believing this is how the world operates or is supposed to operate.And that there’s nothing wrong with them.
U9-12 year boys eve-teasing adult women was the norm in your ‘reputed convent school’, for real ?(Mind you, we are not talking about kids making dirty jokes amongst themselves as they discover puberty, but actually harassing real human beings – without shame or fear of consequences)
UDid you tell them specifically the kind of innuendos they were making or just say ‘Gandi baat kar rahe they’ ? (Because the later doesn’t really convey the seriousness of the issue). Be explicit about the kind of words they used , use those exact words in front of the parents and see if they still feel ‘bachhe haen’ – tell them they you are retrieving the images from the lifts’s CCTV and would complain to the police.Make them understand how you plan to initiate actions against these kids and how the association of their own kids with these humbugs might tarnish their future if there are criminal complaints on their record as minors.
The key is to be very calm and polite during this conversation and make this a (you + neighbours) vs criminal kids and their parents issue , rather than a You vs neighbours issue.
A strong rap on the hands for these kids to let them understand the consequences of their actions at this point could be all the difference between the society getting 2 more deviants or not.
