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January 26, 2025 at 9:13 pm

All signs of an abusive relationship: initial Lovebombing, violence, the victim trying to downplay it, gaslighting by saying victim gets worked up by small things, not letting anyone else know about it, specially not a professional.

Please go to a therapist or your family/friends who would be supportive. Do not stay in this relationship just because of social norms and stigma about marriage problems. If it happened once, and there is not even acknowledgment, you bet it will happen again. And its not a matter of how hard or heat of the moment or whatever. It is extremely easy to not hit their wife for a normal husband.

This is not your fault. Many victims of domestic abuse convince themselves that somehow it is their fault or that they deserve it. Please seek a therapist and get the help you need to deal with this.

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