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January 26, 2025 at 4:31 am

Please for all things sacred take pictures of yourself right now to preserve a record of the injuries. Any discussion about him hitting you, even the denial of it do it via text or whatsapp so you have written documentation. Definitely tell your family. His family might make excuses. Do not get pregnant under any circumstance. Leave NOW! Any man who hits you once will hit you again. And especially if they think there’s nothing wrong to behave this way.

Hear me please when I say this: If you do not leave him, you’re literally teaching him that if he hits you it is acceptable to you and you will tolerate that behavior. Then he will cross another boundary and will be more physically violent than the first time. And physical violence comes with emotional harm too.

If you don’t leave, you will experience more of the same, with increased intensity/frequency.

And get therapy to understand why you think someone has the right to hit you in the heat of the moment.

I have had many heated moments but never have I ever thought I should lay my hand on another human being because I am heated.

Please get help.

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