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UThere is a very high chance that, as soon as he takes any step to address this, she will go on slapping all kind of cases from harassment, domestic violence, dowry allegations against the friend and his parents and siblings (if any). Will call the guy impotent for not consummating the marriage, and if he did, she will falsely accuse him of unnatural ways of doing it.
This is exactly the kind of woman who will arm twist for her will, at the expense of another man’s life.Before taking any action Ask him to gather evidences for:
A) no dowry transactions, unreasonable demands of lavish wedding or vacations were made.
B) get witnesses possibly messages from her families side, that corroborates that there was no harassment or unreasonable demand.
C) If possible record the conversation with her (where she confesses of this is her intention and she will continue like this)
C) Get the woman to leave the house willingly to her own place. So possibly take a trip together drop her to her parents place, make excuses and come back. Sweet talk her into it. Remember no confrontation or sensible talk will work with such woman.
D) if he owns the place, (transfer the ownership to mother and move on rent) if he lives on rent, cancel the tenancy and move on rent.
E) once all of this is done, and her family starts acting anxious to send her back at that time send them the recording of the daughter and text message of how she’s been handling her affairs.
F) Keep your parent’s involvement to the minimal, for their own good. Discuss and strategise with them but pull them to the forefront only when absolutely necessary.Chances are they might tell the guy, she is now changed and regrets her actions and will do better. But that only happens in movies. Ask your friend to always be level headed, and not be weakened by the emotional mind-games.
