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UFrom your description it seems they are too selfish and weak to do anything. The real problem is, which they have figured out, is in your family. They can dominate your family all their lives, because you guys will allow them to.
Stop negotiating with them. For your family, they dont exist more than a random commuter in local transit.U1. No . (Depends on lot of complications ) This is a civil case. Not a criminal case. Get good legal advice.
2. Yes. No relation to adultery. May even have to pay for the kid
3. Lawyer up
4. Men rarely get divorce based on adultery. Unless your case is so strong that judge likes you. Whatsapp doesnt make case strong. Random allegations doesnt make case stronge. Build your case on merit. Every proof you can get, you must get.UNALYou both can also hire same lawyer. Usually it is not advisable, but it seems everything is amicable in your case.
Lawyer will file paperwork and tell you how to present yourself in court. Thats all he has to do. If you can, get a reputed lawyer from your connections . It will be costlier but if connection is reputed there will no games.
Else , find a decent lawyer who has filed similar cases in the court of your choosing. Avoid giving all details. Keep discussions platonic and boring. Show yourself as middle class. Once papers are correctly filed, then it is a waiting game.
UFor certain cases – people are ready to spend all their life savings. That attract lot of negative attention.You have to be willing to fight these things in an appropriate way , without relying on easy way outs.
ULast point is your answer.Police may threaten you unnecessarily. It is sad.
If you are going to talk legal with them, get a lawyer. Lawyer will have his own agenda, sadly.
If you can involve some trustworthy personal connections for advice , do that once. Has to be trustworthy, otherwise they will have their own agenda.
There exists non-profit groups to help in these cases. NOT Ngo. ngos may have their own agenda sadly. Groups of people like you and me, but with experience. Reach out to them asap. Get some expert advise.
UNAL.Figure out if they are ready for a Mutual without any exchange of money. Not a penny. Get a MOU or similar. Let them withdraw their cases . Mention all conditions in MOU. If nothing seems off in these discussions , they seem happy with the deal , then take mutual . In 6-12 months – you will be free.
If they change mind, you are anyway in for along fight . Plan again.
