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January 13, 2025 at 8:01 am

Thanks for your input

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January 13, 2025 at 8:00 am

Hi I’m not judging her for that, I feel betrayed by him hiding it because i shared everything regarding my family so i feel i deserve to know this personally from him not anyone else.

Also constant comparisons with her SIL (she is not working(thats upto her), and he wants me to be non working too)and telling my mother to teach your daughter to be like my sister is unwarranted and makes me feel its unjust.

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January 12, 2025 at 9:22 am

Thank you guys i shall consult a lawyer first and ask about the legalities. And shall get into the process of jewelry and other retrievals

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January 12, 2025 at 9:20 am

Yes I’m pretty set on having a female lawyer for the exact reason.

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January 12, 2025 at 9:17 am

Thanks yes I’m planning to do so.. shifting jewelry and assets seems surreal and like I’m finally doing it..

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January 12, 2025 at 9:16 am

This is what is scaring me the most, as husband’s family is influential, I’m also afraid this might affect my child mentally in case of any back and forth of legal proceedings. Hoping and praying your cousin and niece get thru this soon!

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January 12, 2025 at 9:13 am

The emotional part is what is scaring me – i will try it all before pulling the plug. Thanks for your advice!

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January 12, 2025 at 9:12 am

Thank you!

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January 12, 2025 at 9:09 am

Hi I’m from tamilnadu.. thanks for your input !

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January 11, 2025 at 1:08 pm

Yes i don’t want to go that route either, that is not ethical as you mentioned.
I wanted to be upfront of my plans, so that he might not get misled if i do move abroad, but you are right what is not final, I don’t have to discuss now. Thanks for your advice, it sounds solid – I shall speak with a lawyer and discuss my options, and then approach him as you have suggested.

Thank you!

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January 11, 2025 at 1:05 pm

Hey Thank you, i will check her profile out. Thanks for your advice too

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January 11, 2025 at 1:02 pm

Hey thanks much! You are spot on. Yes that is why i insisted on separate residence, but husband convinced me otherwise – no point in totally blaming him, i realise i should have stood my ground.

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January 11, 2025 at 12:04 pm

Thank you so much, Hopefully i bounce back!

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January 11, 2025 at 12:00 pm

Thank you for your response.

The leap of getting a lawyer is scaring me, as i have no emotional support per se, but i shall do so.

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January 11, 2025 at 11:59 am

Hi Arjun, thanks for responding. Please help me regarding few more queries.

What happens after 5 years, when i have to move abroad and husband is refusing NOC? And will my case even amount to divorce because it is not DV but just mental harassment – will judge say i have to live in matrimonial home and refuse divorce for me? What is the timeline for such contested divorces, by when i might get divorce once the proceedings start?

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