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UI’m not sure how old are you but the statement you mentioned here is “naive” and sounds “unbothered”. If 22L is a big amount for you then visit a professional lawyer, get the document read, understand if you have a case, find other people who might have been cheated by this lawyer and get some real work done.
I’m surprised at how we just want to do anything that can be done with mobile phones!
UInspite of the fact that I agree with you I still find it bad decision if she believes that she’ll be able to claim custody later on. Please don’t forget that human being is able to achieve anything except for relations and support of other humans.. and they’re her childrenUI think you’re not understanding the seriousness of situation. I don’t want to judge you but why would a mother more desperately need her wedding expanse over her children’s custody? Once custody granted could be very very difficult to claim in future. Like everyone is advising you, please don’t think that since he has money so he can better raise kids- he can also be abusive towards kids like he did to you(just an assumption). Please talk to a lawyer- get the kids and leave peacefully with maintenance to raise kids. Or as you said you’ve already made your mind but please think again and again about not having rights over kids anymore.UHow did you marry her? I mean how did you meet? Were there senior people from your society/community involved, had there been any relative involved.
I have seen 2 divorces in relatives but both were resolved by community where people separated on condition of earliest divorce and no money exchange was involved. The jewellery of men’s side remained with them, girl took her side of jewellery and gifts.
But that’s when people really want peace and community is involved to pressurise the wrong side to resolve amicably. All the best!UUncle may sound like a culprit but father and grandfather had been the morons.. my father from very early childhood taught us not to trust anyone with your own money. Sorry but it does not seem you guys can do a lot except for some rule there which kind of proves ownership when one is residing in a property and paying govt bills for very long duration of time. See a lawyerUDoes she have any jwels with her- can she use those for her survival? Like making an FD by selling those and using interest for survival.I think divorce is the only option she has. I understand legal process is never a quick solution in India. But as you’ve narrated the situation it seems your father has already assessed his options.
Can you think about not quitting education because it’s the only thing that’s going to take you out of this mess. Trust me! Research about education loans.
UWhat is your status? You’re man, woman? Who is the property in name of? Is the brother legally adopted?
Your mother can disown him legally. She can sell everything and make an FD, so that she ensures smooth expenses for herself, make your phone number in all banking transactions. See a lawyer and he can suggest what all can be done in this case.UUnfortunately you will have to sit with mum and dad and decide on what to do. Before she does something illegal and leave your father to pay the price- you’ll have to find a solution. If she is happy with cult, let her go there, be open to accept her if she wants to come back.
Please weigh the risk of losing 3 of you against losing 1.
I’m sorry but sometimes life does not leave a choice but to be practical! All the best!
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