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UHi, Unfortunately I donāt have the chat and his confessions as proof. I can give my statement and that is it. May I know if I wanted to report FIR, within how much time period I should make a report for it to be Valid ?UThank you for your support and for acknowledging what happened. It means a lot. Iām still processing everything and considering my next steps, but I appreciate your words.UThank you really, it was hardā¦it shattered me. I told him about my past SA And still he forced me., along with false promisesā¦.
Thank you for kind words.
Itās reassuring me that āNot all menā
If I was a man, Iād definitely listen to my woman too.How did he find in his heart to do this I donāt know.
Not all men nu nambi tha, I allowed him to home but
Apdi Enna pleasure & Lust ketkuthu,
that it covered his eyesā¦ completely.He calls himself a āGood manā despite it all, he brushed it off as a simple mistake.
His words,
Naan thappu paniten, but thappanavan ella,
Nee aye vetuku allow panne,
Nee acho control ha eruka vendiyathu thana apdi nuā¦he blame me.I didnāt explain him about freezing and fawning and allā¦.but he clearly knew that he did me wrong, by forceā¦
He said that I was not his Love, and I was a strong crush and it all happened. We were in same Gym for 1.5 years and I was his crush, I never once spoke before but after he spoke to meā¦shit happened
I was also kissed thrice without my permission looking back it is an SA. I was never given a choice if I wanted to be kissed. I was in shock when it happened out of no where. ( we were not even in relationship, I excused it out of feelings but honestly looking back I feel violated )
Do you truly believe that itās true that a man would not cross, despite being alone with a woman at Night ?, I donāt know if I can ever trust someone that much to be in perfectly closed space with him.
Just because It was night, and my home, did he take it as a sign to force me, I donāt know, still how could he do it ?, Night en veedu ha vae erukatumae , nambi thana allow pannen, nambi thana panneā¦ aniku honestly I was so scared when he didnāt stop,ā¦
Ella pasangalum same ella nu nambinen ā¦ but avan!!ā¦
UIām sorry it happened to you and Glad you stopped blaming yourself, I know how hard self blame is in such cases. Been there, done that. Thank you for sharing this and thank you for your support.UThank you, Iām still processing everything and considering my next steps, but I appreciate your words.UThank you for support. I appreciate your guidance and advice. I will consider my next steps carefully. Thanks again.UThank you for your support. I appreciate your guidance and advice. I will consider my next steps carefully. Thanks again.UThank you for your support and for acknowledging what happened. It means a lot. Iām still processing everything and considering my next steps, but I appreciate your words.UThank you for your kind words and support. I appreciate your guidance and advice. I will consider my next steps carefully. Thanks again.UI doubt too. There comments would be, Probably you asked for it; you allowed him to home, you removed it, you shouldāve asked him to leave. ( HONESTLY I look back and wonder how I couldāve handled things differently but my brain went to survival response – amygdalaās hijack ) and itās not my fault. I know, still, people will say it is my fault.
