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UAlso, another mistake I made, do not disclose your real salary, savings, investments etc. It’ll always be in the back of their mind. And if you purchased any gold and kept there, put them in a locker. My parents basically gave some of it to my sister (when she had a baby) without even asking me. And when I later found it I inquired and that turned into a huge argument that how can I even ask. Sisters are godly people, if she asks you should give away everything you have to her and her children even if you have to beg.UDo not sign. I REPEAT. DO NOT SIGN!
No amount of money is enough for some people and even if you clear all their loans and make them whole they’ll still go get more loans. I’ve been through this and wasted over 2Cr on my dad, and he’s still not grateful. Instead always defends himself by saying I planted a tree (i.e. me) and all my fruits and shade belongs to him. That’s how it has been in vedas and stuff. I get angry and verbally abuse him and then Mom gangs up on me too. It’s a never ending cycle that gets worse with each turn.
You should find some way to say no without burning the bridge. And stay away from him as much as possible. For eg: say that my company isn’t cooperating, and that they’ll not give me any raise because they now know I’ll never leave this job (as they know I now have a loan on my head). Somehow make it sound like you want to help him but you aren’t able to.
