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January 27, 2025 at 11:56 am

Happened to me. Moved countries after marriage. He was sweet during courtship and then after marriage got emotionally closed. Would hang out a lot with this gay office friend. Would never had any meal with me coz he likes to eat in office with his friend. When I was visiting my parents, this gay friend would be always at our place ( otherwise he never came) or my ex would go on double date with this gay friend and other gay couple.

When I opened up about how unhappy and lonely I am in marriage. He suggested we separate right away and didn’t agree for couple counselling to at-least try out.

Now I have been separated for year and haven’t been more happier in my life. But looking back I now understand that I was used by him and his family to get him tag of “marriage” which stops society gossip and marriage pressure of family. none of his family member even talked to me once. I guess they knew abt him and I was used as per their motive. His mother even kept pushing me to have baby asap coz I guess they wanted him to have a baby for himself before it all came crashing down. Thank god I stood my ground on not having baby till the marriage was stable.

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