Do you have a sister and parents?
Why not gift your amazing parents and sibling a house and give your parents a complete ownership.
You 2 can stay in a rented place. It’s your decision if she’s coming and live with you.
Be careful while marrying such materialistic & selfish people.
Think about a possibility of divorce for just a second, you have no security, she has all the right to take away half of your assets and the opposite is not true at all, you don’t have any access to her assets. This seems like a one sided effort with zero equality.
I would leave her immediately.
Decision is yours.