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February 22, 2025 at 5:39 pm

I know of a friend who was a victim of such rejection. The boy met her twice over a month’s period and texted a few times leading her to believe, he was indeed very much invested in proceeding. He then flew to states and they stayed in touch through calls. The boy’s family (parents and sister) met this girl and told her they were all in favour and just need to get a final confirmation from their son and their extended family members. Since it was an AM scenario in a close community (they were from the same city) and the proposal had also come through a mutual friend, people in the circle more or less knew the two were going to be together. The girl’s family during this time also gave them some shagun. Meanwhile, the girl and the boy were happily chatting and talking so it seemed almost like a done thing. And then out of nowhere, when the girl’s family wanted to formalise the arrangement, the boy called it off. They didn’t even call up to cancel but just floated the news through the middlemen saying the girl isn’t quite a match (she works for a FAANG, has a bomb of an education and career, family os reputed, and while she may not look an Alia Bhatt, she’s a decent face). So if you see from the girl’s perspective, she was a victim of somebody’s indecision. And even though this happened probably a year or two ago, she is outcasted as if something really was wrong with her.

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