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May 6, 2026 at 6:57 pm

Not a lawyer, but I can empathize, somewhat. I can’t tell you what you should or should not do, but you mom needs to make the decision to leave or kick him out, not you. And given that she was abused, I am guessing that she will not be okay with you two leaving. Most abuse victims have a complicated relationship with their abuser. And tbh you need to have this discussion with your mom more than anything and if she is fine with whatever is happening to her, then frankly I would leave her to her means and move out and if you are too attached to her then keep your distance from your father and let your mother know that you will not hessistate to kick his relatives out if they say some shit. The best thing I can tell you is gray rock all of em and maintain a distant, do not invite them over, do not engage with them, be as cordial as you can for your mom’s mental health. And if your mom is okay with kicking out your dad, then put him in an old-age home and call it a day.

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