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ULet them get through ramazan. But since they also haven’t paid you rent, it makes your case strong. Use the ramadan wait allowance by asking them to accept the notices in return for your wait and show they mean honest intent. Tell them you wouldn’t dislocate them before eid but other legal formalities to secure you as well has to be cooperated with as they have clearly shaken your confidence by now.UStart working on getting your mom to upskill on things outside house like banking (branch and also mobile), bill payments, maybe even driving.
A lot of moms’ crisis when the affair gets exposed comes from kids still being dependent and they’ve never bothered to learn outside home things skills.
Alt take, but lets also assume she is already aware and is letting it happen for now or doesn’t mind. I mean it’s very less likely. But you have to consider all angles on paper. There’s only one shot you get afterall.
So without getting overloaded in the brain, take a step back. Relax, observe both of their behaviors and see how is she missing the signs. Women do be good with their ability to capture cues which they generally call 6th sense. But you gotta find out if he’s being so smart or she is being wilfully ignorant. In the meantime get on with that skill equipping tasks with her.
But in all this do not overlook studies. That is your key to unlocking self sufficiency afterall. Keep doing what’s working for you there.
UThen I believe he’s not too difficult to remove but yes it’ll still take a couple of weeks if he’s really not worried about going through courts.Your leverages imo are,
– Govt. Employees fear getting complained about officially. So that’s one aspect that can get him to run. You are in a legal transaction that he is faltering on. A police complaint and that knowledge reaching his office can very likely get him suspended and his employment record files stained.
– Guess you will have to get a legal eviction notice and the resulting countdown of him must leaving (or legally double defaulting on the contract of license) started. And he WILL have to face the music sooner as apart from the running around the case of guilt is clear here.
– Your description of his living condition probably also points at you dealing with a person who may be suffering from depression after that failed marriage case bit. Maybe he is just a chronic AH before all that and she got rid of him too. But maybe see if it’s really him coping with his devastation and just seeing you as a replacement nemesis to battle and get his misplaced kicks. So you can address this link empathetically and he may move on from quarrelling with you guys finally. If not, atleast you will have felt you tried all non-hostile options and resolve to get your own asset back in your control and do whatever is needed (which is quite a simple one in your case ‘relatively’ to legal issues that go on & on in our country) for it.
Goodluck!
UNAL.Is that a rent agreement or precisely leave & license agreement?
Next time you rent out a property, ensure your papers read leave & license agreement than rent agreement. And owner-tenant are referred to as licensor & licensee instead. Makes the legal standing different since rent agreement is seen differently from legal angle and it protects tenants over landlords.
