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UThank you for clearing this, i will be needed to do this in a week
Can you post a link of you know more about thisUAttachments to a place will never make us sell this
Though thanks thats a convenient option i can choose to keep the proceeds.UI have suggested to my elders. Brother and mother.
Maybe they want to move on, mother says its better to end relations than to pertain and face further reflections.
Little relief, your last line, pal.ULiquor doesn’t buy ones who’ve planned it for 30 years i guess. But sad for your uncle’s Liver now.UUncle is not a culprit just a blue collar thug, free loader if not anything.
Grandfather was careless back then, and father never dreamt of such a situation we are in now, he was absolutely healthy until COVID-19 caused havoc.UToday only he visited accompanied by an interested buyer, hence this post.
Ive had numerous chats with him in the span of 3 years since 2021 after my father passed away but he is orthodox, he finds me immature to take decision about a property since im like 40 years younger.
I can say this older generation in India has to learn from ‘now’ chill elders & boomers of rest of the world who pass on the accumulated wealth to the deserving.UIt is a stupid mistake absolutely, in 1980s some families seemed to gel well amongst their kith-kin and relatives. Nobody cared whose house and whose name it bear on title. Disputes were there and im not denying, but such an event is unimaginable and unbearable.
Waiting for court’s decision for next 10 years will just destroy us financially, mother and uncle will expire by then, life.UI know you are right, attachment for 30+ years absolutely is a vain which cannot vanish easily.
Interestingly, my grandfather had made legal papers accordingly but uncle abstained. Further, on his deathbed grandpa begged uncle to transfer ground + 1 to my father in 2009 but cunningly uncle let grandpa die, never contributed in hospital’s bills or any care required by grandparents. But the court/society will not accept any of this, we go by rules and not character.
I wish grandpa had done equivalent sharing while registry, we could’ve worked something out.
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