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UThis exactly!! What woman would want to sleep with someone after a 14hr work day and especially when you in laws in the next room plus you are in a new environment. He kept pushing her to do shit without any empathy or understanding what she really feels or thinks.UJust never get married man. You have no clue how much hard work goes into maintaining marriages. If he cuts communication, she’ll have more power to fuck him in the court. It’s important to deal with this issue with a little bit tactUOP, this sounds eerily similar to my case. I travel 25 kms one way to the office. My partner has never been in a relationship. I have intense moods.
Firstly, I don’t know her side of the story so I can’t talk about that. However, a new relationship needs time and space. If you promised her seperate space near her office, that should have been executed on. It’s very very hard for a woman to come to a new place, travel and slog at work, and thennnn be all romantic or lovey dovey with you. You need to take some things off her plate. It seems like her frustration is largely due to the newness of everything.
You saying you don’t know how to care is also slightly unacceptable. You should learn and improve your skills to be a better partner if you have any intention of making this work.
This just got escalated wayy beyond it should have. Many men don’t know how to be in equal relationships. You gotta give her space to unwind after a hectic work day. If I am working 14 hrs a day, there’s no way I’d want to talk to another human being after I come home let alone navigate the challenges of in laws and marriage.
You should stop dropping and picking up as well because it’s a lot of mental and physical load on you.
To me this seems fixable through space and couples counseling
