He is saying that he has just been taking loan to run the family for the past 25 years. But i know that he is lying just to make us part of this. We are from a below middle class family who lived meagerly. My mom started to work just because my dad is not taking the proper responsibility and she contributed to more than half of our meager living. After i got job, i brought the jewellery for my sister’s marriage, paid from my pocket for her and my marriage, and brought a house. He didn’t contribute at least one rupee and he now just says i spent it all on family