NAL.Β
Please figure out where you will stay before eloping. If you have friends you can confide in, ask them if they can loan you money to figure out stay, transport and food for your first month before you get your first paycheck.
Try for a switch after one year, and trust me it gets easier. Multiple offers will help with raising that CTC.
Be safe, donβt let anyone undermine your resolve and self respect. Donβt let anyone take you for granted.You are brave.