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Btry to research CPGRAMS, and how to reach the anti-corruption bureau/branch of the state, then catch him red handed.
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PI just want to get married. Please help me around with that. I don’t really want to get into these complications
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Bthats why when you know the remedies and state them to that POS registrar he will stop the pestering against you. voice record all the interactions.
if you don’t want to confront using those then i guess you need to find a lawyer/agent who will get it done for less than that amount.
just like how this shit works in RTOs around the country.
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PSo there are only 3 government registered registrars for my ward. Only one does foreigner special marriage act. It’s a government service, shouldn’t it be done for free/minimal amount?
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Byeah usually these things don’t cost much, prolly under 5k,
like when i had made my drivers license 5-6 years back, I went the full honest legal route, no-agent bribes and shiz. costed my 20% of what was demanded. but took time and had to attend all the tests and pass them.
thats why without getting disturbed by their straight up immorality ask them deadass whats the actual cost, i guess this should be on some state specific website, But if you maintain the facade of someone who aint gonna bend to your wishes dumbass then they will let you off hook and follow the real process and won’t take bribes.
thats why i was recommending having knowledge of what to do incase he or his cronies dont budge.
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AThese suckers know you will not have time to run around. Had to pay a lakh just to transfer house from my late dads name to mom. Its the name of the game. Welcome to the piece of shit corrupt to the core country.
Why even bother registering in india. Can you not register in HIS country? Or you get to travel only after getting a marriage based visa?
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PCan’t travel to his country. So need to get it registered here. Is there a way around it? Because all of this needs to be done in a month and I don’t want the process to get stuck.
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AUbless you know local politicians who can help, pay the cost of convenience and move on. Once they know you are in a rush, they will delay it even more in one pretext or other where you will be open to pay them even more money just to get work done.
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AI know. But what we gonna do. Especially those who dont live in india and can only visit for a short time. If you both have time, then by all means, file the paperwork and force him to follow due process. But do remember. These suckers have all the tricks up their sleeves. If there is a process to publish a public advertisement for anyone raising objections, they can just have someone file an objection. And then you are on ur own to fight out that shit.
I really hate this country.
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KYes, every lawyer will try to scam. Court marriage procedure is not something complex for which you need lawyers.
Please go through this http://www.indiafilings.com/learn/court-marriage
You will get your answers here. Don’t waste your money on agents and lawyers. Or negotiate the fees if you don’t have enough time to do it yourself.
40k is too high.
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PYou need a marriage registrar in any case and the thing is these people have formed a cartel, because you cannot do without them.
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KYeah, but don’t budge. Negotiate the fees. Is there any for you to move to different state and get married? Bandra Court, Mumbai are very swift in these matters.
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CHey from what i read from your comments, you dont want to drag this but doesnt wsnt to bribe, so i have a plan for 40k you can just visit thailand and get your marraige regestered there, from what i read online you have to visit your respective embassies and obtain some form and then visit the marraige office one more thing js you have to stay there for 3 days before getting married
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CWell you either have to pay here or go somewhere else,others have suggested to standup but you dont want to do that.
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VI got married to my wife in Seychelles. Their process was super smooth. Once you get married you need the certificate to be apostilled and then an embassy stamp on it. The whole process takes 2-3 days.
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MYes, sounds like a scam. At most it should be around 10k. The government charges are around Rs. 200. Search for lawyers who handle SMA and let them deal with the registrar.
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PThe problem is that WB gov has digitised the process and separated the gov registered registrars based on wards. I only have three in my ward and only one deals with SMA. Lawyers don’t do this thing.
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MThe process is digitized since ages. I registered my marriage online 4-5 years ago at lawyer’s office in Kolkata. Search for marriage lawyers and talk to them and negotiate the price. Since, your bf is foreign citizen they are exploiting you. My cousin married last month and paid 6.5k for registration under SMA, both were Indian citizens. The government charges are very minimal and rest is their profits. They will try to justify that by giving BS excuses.
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C10k is more than enough for this. My brother got married in Jan, his wife is not Indian, he spend 10k for registration.
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PI spend some 500 for some registrar document fees. I think the sweet box we gave them at the end of the 30 days was more. I got married in Kochi.
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