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MMegaarushi2731
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March 17, 2025 at 10:46 amA few years ago, my friends and I were living together in a 2BHK apartment. We were all working professionals—some in IT and some in non-IT fields. One day, a friend of a friend named Jagadeesh visited our apartment and stayed for a night. Initially, we didn’t mind his occasional visits, and over time, he started staying more frequently. Since we believed an extra person wouldn’t make much of a difference, we let him stay without contributing to rent or expenses.That’s when Jagadeesh started executing his plan. To gain our trust, he frequently sponsored parties, bought movie tickets, and treated us to food. We thought, “Since he’s not paying rent, this is his way of contributing.”
One day, he claimed to have an emergency and asked for money. One of my friends, S, lent him his credit card, which Jagadeesh used to withdraw around ₹20,000. Surprisingly, within a few days, he repaid ₹22,000. Then, he requested to use the credit card for a few more days, promising to return even more.
This is where things started going downhill. My friend S saw an opportunity and applied for multiple credit cards, handing them over to Jagadeesh. Over time, the total amount Jagadeesh borrowed reached ₹4.5 lakh. Initially, he repaid everything with unbelievable interest. When we asked about his job, he claimed to work at Hyderabad International Airport and even offered us flight tickets at ridiculously low prices, which made his story seem credible.
Months went by, and without realizing it, each of us started lending him money. Eventually, we discovered that, collectively, we had given him nearly ₹20 lakh.
Then came the turning point. One day, one of my friends received a call from a person claiming to be an ally of an MLA from Andhra Pradesh. He warned us that Jagadeesh was a fraud who had scammed many people and that they were tracking him down. This was a wake-up call for us. We started discussing amongst ourselves and realized how much we had lost. We decided to confront Jagadeesh and demand repayment.
When he visited our apartment, the MLA’s allies called again, asking us to hand him over. They were waiting near our building. Fearing the situation, we hid Jagadeesh on the top floor and went to meet them. However, while we were speaking to these men, Jagadeesh casually walked to a nearby tea stall. The MLA’s allies spotted him, grabbed him, shoved him into their car, and told us to leave.
We were terrified, but later that night, Jagadeesh called us, crying. He claimed the men were demanding ₹2 lakh to let him go. He promised to sign any promissory notes we wanted and repay us soon if we helped him. However, we neither trusted him nor had the money. We insisted that he come to our apartment first and sign the notes before we considered arranging any funds. Despite his pleas, we refused.
At around 3 AM, we received another call from the so-called MLA’s allies, claiming that Jagadeesh had escaped. We tracked his Google location, which showed him in an isolated area near the Outer Ring Road (ORR), but when we went there, he was nowhere to be found.
Months passed with no news of him. We tried contacting his father, but he claimed ignorance. Then, we learned from a friend in Jagadeesh’s hometown of Rajam, Vizianagaram, that he was back at his house.
Determined to recover our money, some of my friends, including S, went to Rajam and confronted his father. Instead of helping, his father blamed us, asking why we had given his son money without consulting him. When my friends demanded repayment, things turned violent. Jagadeesh’s father tried to push S under a moving bus and threw a stone at another friend, causing a head injury.
This entire incident happened in February 2024. At that time, Jagadeesh’s father assured us that we could collect the money in May 2024.
**PLOT TWIST:** The MLA’s allies, the kidnapping, and the escape—everything was a lie. It was all an elaborate scheme by Jagadeesh to escape from us.
When we confronted his father again in May, he smugly responded, “I said I’d pay in May, but I never mentioned which year.”
Since we come from middle-class and lower-middle-class families, we couldn’t involve our parents—they wouldn’t be able to handle the shock. Now, through a source, we’ve discovered that Jagadeesh is getting married to his cousin.
As of today, we haven’t recovered a single rupee from him since February.
Are there any lawyers or legal experts who can guide us on what action we can take against him? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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SSilentsuhani990
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March 17, 2025 at 12:37 pmFull cinema-
MMegaarushi2731
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March 17, 2025 at 12:39 pmYeah, I sometimes I feel that instead of scamming us he can become a good story writer or a director and he will have a bright future.-
SSilentsuhani990
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March 17, 2025 at 12:41 pmBuddy you have a bright future with the yarns you spin
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MMightyking66
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March 17, 2025 at 12:42 pmSeriously what shit is happening in the world. Everyone justTry filing criminal cases, if you have his id,
But long drawn as you have given money willingly. Similar case like Tinder Swindler on Netflix
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KKrishfalcon37
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March 17, 2025 at 2:14 pmIn india, we didn’t get the justice in short period.we have to go to courts multiple times.as we are doing software jobs we don’t think we can go to court multiple times-
MMightyking66
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March 17, 2025 at 6:12 pmSomehow I doubt the genuinety of your post.Anyone scammed of such an amount would be upset and trying there best legally.
However when someone talks about FIR/courts you shut them down saying it’s impossible..
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KKrishfalcon37
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March 17, 2025 at 6:32 pmYes I know but as middle class families we didn’t have enough guts to face police and law,and alsondont have enough proofs
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UUser_f46f9d2f
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March 17, 2025 at 12:44 pmLegal wont work here my friend. You need to take care of it off the books.-
KKrishfalcon37
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March 17, 2025 at 2:12 pmWe tried that too but they also asked some money but we are not ready to pay-
PPrimedude3191
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March 17, 2025 at 4:56 pmAre you op?-
KKrishfalcon37
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March 17, 2025 at 6:07 pmYes-
PPrimedude3191
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March 18, 2025 at 5:16 amOp is embarassed car something-
CCalmyuvraj2735
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March 18, 2025 at 4:01 pmIt’s his friend, duh.
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SSaistar680
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March 17, 2025 at 12:44 pmSorry, a bit of a diversion from the topic, but did I read correctly that you guys withdrew cash using credit cards? As in you lent him money on your own borrowings??-
KKrishfalcon37
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March 17, 2025 at 2:10 pmNo , initially he said he will do rotation of credit card.like that he started doing for all credit cards..as credit cards are new it is quite exciting for s so he applied and given to him
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UUrbanjatin7837
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March 17, 2025 at 1:04 pmJust crazy. miss you guys all the strength to recover your money -
SShashwatstar866
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March 17, 2025 at 1:10 pmNew account crazy story! Definitely not Karma farming!-
MMegaarushi2731
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March 17, 2025 at 1:18 pmI really don’t know what is the use of karma in reddit. -
KKrishfalcon37
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March 17, 2025 at 2:18 pmDefinitely it’s a story but real story happened
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PPayalpanda188
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March 17, 2025 at 1:14 pmA movie can be made on this. But i hope you had filed a police Complaint-
KKrishfalcon37
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March 17, 2025 at 2:11 pmActually we thought of giving that,but we are from middle class families.we didn’t told this matter in our house.so if we gave police complaint it will reach to our family also we have only phonepe transactions not have enough proofs-
SSilentmehul7079
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March 17, 2025 at 3:43 pmWho are you-
KKrishfalcon37
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March 17, 2025 at 3:48 pmVictim s
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DDesifalcon7068
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March 17, 2025 at 1:50 pmI think this is a karna farming post-
MMegaarushi2731
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March 17, 2025 at 3:20 pmWhat is the meaning of it bro?
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MManjeetshark105
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March 17, 2025 at 2:31 pmOff the topic
If we get scammed
Can we ask or raise grievance somewhere to get money back. -
UUser_5da1b4ee
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March 17, 2025 at 2:38 pmThe andhra bit checks, they have the most 1st and 2nd cousin marriages -
DDesilion8545
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March 17, 2025 at 2:40 pmNot legal advice, but practical advice, collect 15-20 of your friends and family as many as possible, reach out to his home, 2-3 days before wedding tell them if they dont pay, you will get Jagdeesh arrested and let the world know he is a scamster. Wedding can be cancelled off, if they come to know about it so this is the right place to put pressure, also these scamsters must be taking lot of dowry so they wouldnt want you guys to jeopardize all this. And, last but not least, once you have your money, inform the bride side to ensure that the poor girl doesnt have to live with this scamster for the rest of her life.-
MMegaarushi2731
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March 17, 2025 at 3:21 pmI believe she knows everything. Like those two families are close relatives.-
DDesilion8545
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March 17, 2025 at 3:48 pmAre you absolutely sure, they know everything? They may have lied to bride side and told them something else. You all can create ruckus on wedding day too, make sure every guest knows about it, this way atleast their social reputation gets hit.-
PPrimedude3191
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March 17, 2025 at 4:57 pmOp wouldn’t help himself
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UUser_2251dd24
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March 18, 2025 at 8:08 amTalk to both families. If nothing works out put posters around his house, her house and the wedding hall – If you find this fraud I’ll pay 10,000 rupees or whatever.
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NNiravpanther555
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March 17, 2025 at 2:43 pmReport to the police -
CCalmeagle9213
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March 17, 2025 at 2:46 pmConvert this to a complaint and file it with the police station where you all were residing. Consider taking care of the cops and they will convert this to an FIR and maybe arrest him. You will need to arrange for some funds though to take care of cops. Also, involve a lawyer in all of this. No other way. -
SSmartbro5197
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March 17, 2025 at 3:02 pmWhy do I feel like I have read this story before🤔 -
RReyanshstar730
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March 17, 2025 at 3:07 pmBetter pay 2L to the MLA’s allies and get Jagadeesh back. Then there would be some chance of recovering the 22L + interest. Otherwise all the money is gone.-
MMegaarushi2731
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March 17, 2025 at 3:22 pmActually that MLA ally, that 2 lakh demand everything is created by jagadeesh to escape from us.-
RReyanshstar730
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March 17, 2025 at 3:52 pmOkay. Sorry. Hope you get your money back.
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MMightyanil6915
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March 17, 2025 at 3:27 pmOP, use Vakil GPT and write your story in full details. Then, pls follow the steps as it suggests..
Most people here will scold you instead of giving advice.-
MMegaarushi2731
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March 17, 2025 at 3:30 pmTrue : (Tq for the advice, don’t know till now that a gpt exist regarding this.
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UUser_a8f6425f
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March 17, 2025 at 3:34 pmReverse scam Jagdeesh and his father -
VVanshninja265
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March 17, 2025 at 3:57 pmMake a screen play, and sell it to Bollywood, you will recover some of your money.Sorry not a lawyer, and I can’t give you any legal advise.
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SSheetalthinker780
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March 17, 2025 at 4:02 pmMan this ought to be shown on news channels. If you have enough evidence do go that way as well. Wish you the best. -
SSushmitafalcon138
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March 17, 2025 at 4:28 pmTell me this is a movie script.If not then sell this story to highest bidder. You can recover your money this way too.
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UUser_c7d0eb5a
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March 17, 2025 at 4:37 pmIs he from Jharkhand?-
MMegaarushi2731
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March 17, 2025 at 4:44 pmNo he from rajam, vizianagaram district, Andhra pradesh
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RRanjanpanda425
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March 17, 2025 at 4:39 pmgreed got your ass on fire… -
UUser_8d60bc6f
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March 17, 2025 at 4:43 pmBhai ne itni mehnat ki toh itna toh banta h 😂 -
UUser_19cb289c
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March 17, 2025 at 4:56 pmHigh IQ dude. Sad to see him go the other way -
UUser_282cc43f
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March 17, 2025 at 5:04 pmNAL- publish his pic in regional papers announcing a fee if he is traced. I have seen similar announcements by cops with the FIR details and police station contact no mentioned in such ads.
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IIndianking5260
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March 17, 2025 at 5:41 pmWas the scammer from a place called Darsi in AP? -
EEpicgowri6566
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March 17, 2025 at 5:46 pmCrash his wedding -
MMegaanvi2363
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March 17, 2025 at 5:52 pmlesson: never lend. if did, forget it.-
NNadiastar346
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March 17, 2025 at 6:22 pmlesson 2 : don’t mess with Jagadeesh’s father. He’s strong as fuq
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BBravethinker8503
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March 17, 2025 at 6:33 pmJust don’t listen to anyone blaming youGo to a police station and register criminal cheating case and assault case.
80 percent of lending happens with verbal agreement. You have many victims to support each other in the case
Though recovery is rare, atleast he will stop cheating more people
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UUser_587a4965
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March 17, 2025 at 7:02 pmJagdeesh inspiration-Sukesh Chandrashekhar. -
QQuickeagle7726
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March 17, 2025 at 7:52 pmThere is nothing particularly masterful about it; he simply is not as retarded as you all combined together. A fool and his money is always parted , especially a fool who is swayed by pittance out of greed – that’s why you all lent him money anyways. -
UUser_81c97748
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March 18, 2025 at 12:52 amto be frank, this is a bullshit story. -
KKrishguy908
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March 18, 2025 at 1:52 amFind a bigger goon than this POS who can pressure him -
KKrishfalcon37
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March 18, 2025 at 5:10 amThis is H one of the roommate. In our lives, there was another incident involving me and my friend that is related to this post. We did not have a degree at the time, but we were pursuing one. However, every job interview we attended required a degree, making it difficult for us to secure employment. One day, Jagdish mentioned that he knew someone from Andhra University who could arrange a degree for us, but it would take around three months and cost approximately ₹1.20 lakhs and he asked us for our intermediate certificates. Since we were already pursuing our degrees, we decided to go for it and drop our previous attempt. Willing to pay the amount, both my friend and I initially contributed ₹60,000 each. However, as time passed, there were no updates regarding the degree. After his escape we find our certificates in a bag in our room hidden in a bag. He didn’t even sent them to any one atleast. And all these days that bag is in our room but none of us touched it.-
MMegaarushi2731
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March 18, 2025 at 5:36 amThis is the reason we didn’t approach police in first place
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AAlpharenu8725
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March 18, 2025 at 5:26 amGood Story … Keep adding more twist and keep us entertained. -
CCalmgopal81
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March 18, 2025 at 6:48 amconsider that money gone unless you have his signed affidavits even then such cases usually take years have seen some take more than 10 years with all of proper paperwork -
DDesihawk1849
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March 18, 2025 at 6:55 amI think you guys deserved it. Someone who is this idiot deserves a tight slap so that they can wake up -
CCalmnishant938
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March 18, 2025 at 10:31 amThis is the story of a Malayalam movie starring Tovino. r/yeahthathappened material-
UUser_25faca0e
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March 18, 2025 at 2:38 pmYes, and the certificate story by room mate H is another movie starring Tovino… Clearly Jagdeesh is a movie buff…
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SSilentsharmila6503
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March 18, 2025 at 2:55 pmThis reminds me of a netflix show “Tinder Swindle” the culprit did something similar.So technically he used your cards and he cannot be blamed as the card holder is liable for all the usage.
Gonna be hard to recover. Focus on making more and consider the money lost as a lesson for future.
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UUser_62710c68
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March 18, 2025 at 6:42 pmSame , just same type of scam happened with my father and he’s right now in unbelievable unimaginable credit card debt of 20+ lacs , and on top of that we have home loans emi+ household expenses and my brother’s study expenses then we also come from lower middle class family so I’m just helpless right now, how can I help my family? -
EExpertrider9451
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March 18, 2025 at 9:30 pmSame my mother had also lent around ₹15-20 lakh to her friend. However, the friend is now refusing to repay the amount, claiming that she never received any money from us.The only evidence we have are blank cheques from the lady’s bank account, which are signed by her
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SSilentvidya5945
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March 19, 2025 at 4:25 pmIsn’t there a photo of him-
MMegaarushi2731
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March 19, 2025 at 4:26 pmWe have, but not sure whether we can upload it here.-
SSilentvidya5945
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March 19, 2025 at 4:30 pmYou guys know where he lives . You hve this photo ! You have all evidence . What is stopping from going to police-
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SSilentvidya5945
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March 19, 2025 at 4:36 pmGood story for a movie man .
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MMegaarushi2731
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March 19, 2025 at 4:35 pmAnd also we don’t have any promissory note kind of things that he signed we just have screenshot of chats and phone pe Transactions and he used credit cards
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RRapidguy6565
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March 19, 2025 at 8:53 pmispe ek tv series banao
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