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AWhat your Dad did was an unsecured loan for interest. Now the borrower is in trouble and can’t pay. So other than filing a claim which will take 25 years to settle, there is very little your Dad can do.
And due to pressure the friend does something drastic and leaves a note with your Dad’s name on it, your Dad will have to spend time with police and even behind bars.
Maybe it is an eye opener. Never lend money to family or friends that you can’t afford to lose.
ABest for OP is to name and shame. Go to the “friend’s” house and involve the parents and show then the proof.That’s the best OP can do. Police can’t help in a civil matter.
AOP. This person is preying on your fears. Just tell him your next recourse will be to inform the cops and ensure he is in jail. Tell him you have the evidence of his text messages.If you wish, take advise from women’s social group. Know of someone who was in jail for three months and their family were pleading for mercy.
Women’s organization are very strong, knowledgeable and have right costs with police station.
One call from them or the cops will have this cheap romeo s*****g his pants.
AIn Mumbai, it’s not Uncommon that builders hand over the flats without OC. So just enjoy your new house and work towards getting the OC later.ABesides other things, understand your brother’s trauma and try to talk to him everyday. The silent people repress their emotions. It’s a pressure cooker situation though for them. Don’t let this happen.AJust tell him you will report to the cops. That’s good enough. Or contact Women Social Workers. They will guide you ensure you are safe.ANope. Big disagree. Get the girl on yourside. Don’t end things because parents oppose – as most parents do. Their objectios can be overcome if the girl is on your side.
