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BIllegal steps to recover money can take more than 40-50 lakhs and even more time. It’s not like you have money in cash that they can threaten and take right away (I’m assuming). Honestly for someone who’s wealthy and has so much influence, it’s not a big amount. And secondly, are you sure they don’t owe your father money or if they’re covering up their own scams and using your father’s name? Then threatening might be empty and to scare you into diverting from whatever is the main issue.BYou need strong evidence that your grandfather gifted it when he was in his right mind and not after being diagnosed with Alzheimer’s (or early stages when he still had mental clarity). In your case most of the legal ramifications would be based on this – whether your grandfather gifted the house to you WHEN he was in right mind and not under duress or mental confusion from the disease. If that can be proved, as long as the property is his hard earned and not inheritance, he can choose to give it to anyone he likes.BCouple staying separately after marriage and having their well-discussed rules around both sets of parents visiting, staying over and how much time they spend at each others parents place. That’s going to solve half the problems if done right. If it helps, make a 50-50 rule where one party doesn’t get more rights or responsibilities compared to other.
Make sure your cousins parents have their own place on their own name, not jointly owned with son and if that’s the case, transfer all share of it to parents (and getting back his money). Whatever the couple builds with their own money is theirs and no talks of inheritance or blah blah. Also never a good idea to disclose wealth of parents, whether it’s wife’s side or husband’s side – especially to each other parents. Brings in unnecessary drama of “your in-laws are so miserly when they have this much money”.
Premature disclosure is to be avoided especially if AM. Unfortunately most people just do a word vomit of everything to their spouse in the early days of marriage and if the other person is not mature enough, all these can be weaponized in future. Build trust first, share little by little based on that built trust – after all marriage is supposed to be for life so your spouse doesn’t need to know everything about you in a day.
BIf it’s not consummated, ask your friend to file for annulment. Ask him to never ever take any blame for what she is doing because it can backfire on him and invite other problems. Get both parents under same roof and tell them what exactly she’s doing. She’s free to live her own life her way but she has no rights to destroy someone who else’s. Afterall, people marry to live happily with their partners, not live like flatmates. Oh, definitely get some form of evidence, maybe texts or calls where she confesses or atleast doesn’t refute the fact that she’s not interested in this marriage.BLet Amazon solve this first, if they don’t resolve this, say in a month or so, you can go to consumer courtBUnfortunately too many families are doing this without any regards to other parties wishes. Tell them your brother liked another girl and got engaged. Once they realize their chances have slimmed down, their craziness will start to go down.
