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      May 7, 2026 at 6:05 pm
      NAL

      I can get you because i come from a similar situation and he is right, you can’t legally do anything.. even the evidence you have may get thrown away by judge who will later use that as mental cruelty against her .

      Also if she files DV and dowry cases, then you would be spending another 5 years to quash them all while paying interim maintenance.

      Your only option is to take your lawyer to her and her parents, tell if you file , it will be bad name to their family, so you are settling for Mutual consent divorce and pay a one time settlement and not tell others the reasons why . Get divorce in 1.5 years and move on .

      My wife too did that and she is not allowing me to see my kids as punishment and unfortunately i can’t do anything legally.

      If you are looking for legal punishment you are in wrong country, if you are looking for karma to punish her ,you are in wrong planet

      in reply to: Anticipating Divorce recently married #78833
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        May 7, 2026 at 8:55 am
        NAL – Have a discussion and ask for mutual consent divorce. Give a decent one time settlement and move on .

        Don’t work on ego because the law is lopsided and once it goes to court , it will take 5 years and multiple hearings which are financially and mentally draining

        Also check if marital counseling can help . But go for reputed ones even if they are costly because a lot of them in our country are bad and might end up making it worse

        in reply to: Wife put on PIP after disclosing maternity treatment #4058
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          May 2, 2025 at 11:24 am
          I was put in PIP even after getting employee of the quarter just half a year ago.. i know the feeling when i handed in the resignation and noone other than the HR didn’t even respond ( working remotely) 

          It’s not easy to go through and gave me imposter syndrome in the new company and took a year to recover 

          in reply to: Wife put on PIP after disclosing maternity treatment #4038
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            May 2, 2025 at 9:45 am
            NAL 

            But i think she comes under protected category and cannot be fired …

            Also please tell her not to take it seriously, jobs will come and go but taking stress during pregnancy can seriously affect your child …

            All the best 

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              February 4, 2025 at 6:48 am
              How can you expect physical evidence if the victim reported after a week due to shame 

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                February 4, 2025 at 5:46 am
                Because the term rape is too vague to have a blanket punishment.. also in many cases , there is no physical evidence and it’s all circumstantial..  plus many fake cases..

                Even in gang rape , not everytime they get death penalty but only in rarest of rare cases 

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                  January 31, 2025 at 7:17 am
                  What if she has lied for 10 years that she never had one and suspected every woman you are friendly with ??

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                    January 31, 2025 at 5:03 am
                    In the process 

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                      January 30, 2025 at 4:53 pm
                      My wife used to check all my phone messages and ask every woman in our chats for close to 10 years of my marriage.

                      The first time in 10 years I checked and found that she was cheating on me and she also had a bf before marriage 

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