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CI have no problem with him prioritising his parents.But shouldn’t he prioritise me too? At least when it comes to matters that concern me or only us? Is that too much?CI understand this pov.
But you can’t force people to attend counselling when they don’t want to. And it’s not my life’s purpose to devote my young years to changing them. They should have to emotional quotient to realise and do that themselves.
And this advice ain’t for me. I am not looking to get married after this. I only want to focus on myself and my career. Earn well, travel and take care of my parents.
CI have told him that too.I told him (Not in a threatening way) that if things don’t change, I’ll move out of the house and I’ll only care about myself.
Even after that, there is no response from him.
CI don’t know whose replies you’re reading. And in the post I asked ‘How to bring up divorce?’ not ‘should I divorce?’CThe thing is, He is the family business. It’s his business, not his parents. That is why I tried to talk and make him understand my issues, too. He acts as if it is all his parents’ money. Everything he has is in his parents’ names. He doesn’t ‘own’ anything.CI am waiting for my parents because I don’t want to hurt them. They are understanding, and they only want what’s best for me. We have a good relationship, and I don’t want to abandon it for some guy whom I won’t remember in a couple of years.
