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CNeither a borrower nor a lender be;
For loan oft loses both itself and friend,
And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry.
This above all: to thine ownself be true,Advice from Polonius to his son Laertes.
From Hamlet by William ShakespeareCJust chill. You don’t even have to go to the police station. Go to college. Speak to your seniors. The police need to send a summons. If they call, tell them you are in college.Most likely they have only made an NC. If they make a FIR they need to give you a copy.
If you do feel the need to go to the station, take a few people with you. No need to bribe. You have not done anything, plus they don’t have video or proof either.
CYou don’t have any ancestral property. It is all self acquired property.Since 2005 daughters have the same rights to property and assets as sons.
In India you cannot legally disown a child.
Now, what can you do? Publish legal notice in Newspaper saying she no longer retains any rights to any asset or property of parents.
Create a legal document disowning her and specifically mention inheritance etc.
Make a registered will. Registered.
Update nominations everywhere. Real estate, Bank acs, FDS, Insurance, demat, Mfs etc.
You could also have joint accounts (with the parents) everywhere to make it even easier.
CThere are homes for this kind of thing but that costs a decent bit of money. A nursing attendant is another option.Really depends on what you mean by taking care of him. Give this some thought.
You are caught in this situation. Whatever decision you take, take it quickly. Specifically, if you intend to get a job and/or leave them don’t delay. No point in wasting more time if you want to leave.
If you are on the wrong train, get off at the next station. The longer you wait, the more time and expense to return.
CIf she was married previously and got divorced in this manner, then it is not a legal divorce.In which case she is still legally married, in which case your marriage is probably not valid.
In which case you don’t need a divorce. You need an annulment.
Better consult a lawyer.
CThere is really nothing you can do legally. If you go to the cops they will not entertain you. If you really make a fuss about it, it might result in an diary entry.On the other hand if you get the address of the car owner, there are possibilities….
CIf you really want to do something, there have to be three of you. Clint Eastwood, Smith and Wesson.CLove is not a prison sentence. Penetrative sex is.If you want to understand the situation here is a link to an article in The Indian Journal of Medical Ethics.
Law Commission of India report on the age of consent: Denying justice and autonomy to adolescents
CHow well do you know her? Are you friends? Is she level headed?If you were 25 and she was 22, a 3 year gap would not matter. So it is not the age gap. She is 17, is there some magic pill or potion that one takes and becomes sensible on turning 18?
So first of all “Don’t Panic”. She is from your society. You can hang out in a group as friends. She is young. Definitely impressionable age. Talk to her. Explain your viewpoint.
If you like her then suggest that you can be friends and hang out in a group but not alone. Also make it clear that she is under age, she has to wait.
If not come up with some excuse which will not hurt her. Be polite but keep your distance.
CIn India a father cannot disown his children so easily. It can only be down under a few specific reasons like Murder etc.Marriage outside the caste will not stand as a reason to disown in a court of law.
However, that does not stop a parent from severing contact.
Disinherit is a different matter. Still needs a proper and registered will.
However it cannot apply to ancestral property.
Instead of fighting, a slow and steady rapprochement over the years is a better approach. Especially after tempers have cooled down.
